I may not have expelled a child from my womb yet but I have the right to tell any parent in the world how things need to be; because unlike some losers my age I have had years of experience with children enough to know how you STINK at what you're doing. You'd better be listening. Your pathetic form of double-standard needs to stop, having one standard for one and giving another a hard time, you're enabling needs to stop, you're babying, whining, griping about stuff you can change, needs TO STOP! OK? Believe me, I'm on your side but I'm fed up with every one of your pathetic excuses to not being active in the proper raising of them. If your kid has an addiction to smoking, drinking, or drugs and you enable them by paying their habits, you should be horsewhipped. STOP IT. If your "problem" has siblings, they are the ones bearing the brunt of your pathetic form of "parenting" and what the other sibling is doing. That's right, what happens in that family doesn't just affect the parents and the problem child, it affects the ones that are being ignored and put on the back burner because they are the "good children" who don't need the spare attention because they are the well-behaved ones. Yeah that may be so, for now. But when that kid snaps it will trigger and that could affect it's life because of your inactivity. They could grow to depend on other things like drugs, alcohol, join a gang, or prostitution, etc. To fill that void YOU never filled because you were too verdammt lazy and aloof to notice jack squat. They could and most likely WILL develop depression, suicidal tendencies and other forms of coping mechanisms to deal with the mental pain that is numbing their psyche. I know ALL of this shouldn't be on the shoulders of you parents because there have been some parents that just have rotten beasts regardless, but the way the world is nowadays and my notice of this topic FIRST hand I know how you parents are. You always blame the kids for your problems. That may be to you, but who forgot to wear a rubber? Who forgot their birth control? If you planned the children please omit the protection speech. If you are still complaining about how your kids drain you and your finances and they were planned, you don't need to verbally say that in front of them or to their face. Once again, a horsewhipping to you. YOU DECIDED TO BRING THEM INTO THIS WORLD SO DEAL WITH WHAT COMES WITH THEM. THERE IS NO EXCUSE. If you overeat you get fat, if you stare at the sun you will have a blind spot, if you stand in front of a semi in the road you will get run over. So whatever your choices you live with the consequences. This is basic knowledge, do we need to go back to grade school children? I didn't think so... now where was I? Oh yes...
I can't stand how parents let their kids rule the house by letting them do whatever they want to. I don't care what Oprah, Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, or that other stupid doctor of the 60's, whatever his name is....Dr. Spock, says. YOU bore the child therefore YOU are responsible for them. Every shred of their anatomy is your responsibility until they are out on their own and not under your roof anymore. Even beneath the skin, the soul is your responsibility. You shape them, mold them and make them into the person they are at this very minute. I don't want to hear your lame excuses as to why you can't be an active parent in EVERY aspect of your child's life. Not just ONE of however many children you have, but EVERY child you expelled from your womb you need to give express attention to. Not just financial, so SHUT UP ABOUT THAT, that's what you're supposed to do. There's more to parenting than just the financial aspect of it. That's the easy part. You need to be an ear to hear, a voice to teach, comfort and guide them, and you need to be there!! Stop being inactive, and stop with your lame excuses. We don't care. The only thing we care about is that you're not there for us when we need or needed you. Stop being our friend and start being our parent. We want rules, structure, and correction. Stop whining, put your pants/skirt back on and be the parents you're called to be. Stop telling us about your financial woes, stop telling us how you hate your wife/husband, that you're not "getting any," or blah blah blah whatever it is you complain about that us kids have ZERO control over. You just get us stressed and worked up. We start depending on other things to mentally get away from it. Cut it the verdammt out so we can focus on what we need to focus on in our life at the moment. Our time will come to deal with the struggles of life. But until then SHUT UP about voicing how hard it is to raise us and that you haven't had a boinking in awhile. Another thing: STOP COMPARING US TO OTHER PEOPLE. You may think that's a good psychological tool to manipulate us into doing better just to prove you wrong, when in fact it does the opposite effect. It makes us hate ourselves and we think you aren't proud of who we are. Then you same people whine and complain about all the depressed, eating disordered, suicidal people...look in the mirror parents of the world. Stop making your kids feel like garbage and start treating them with the potential they all have. If you don't change your ways I will personally come to each and every one of you and make John Kramer look like Mother Teresa.
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