Have you ever paid attention to what someone REALLY thinks of you when you make them angry? Whether you do it intentionally or just accidentally step on their feet the truth always reveals itself.
*Personal disclaimer*: The whole "You can't say that; because people say a lot of things in anger they don't mean if they weren't angry." I'm sorry but that isn't true in my book, the facts always come out when you're mad, if it weren't than there wouldn't be a reason to be mad in the first place. Why would you bring something up that is totally irrelevant to whatever you're mad at calls you a bunch of stuff? That's why I think what anyone tells you in anger is truly 100% what they feel about you.
It never ceases to amaze me how often I discover the truth in how someone TRULY feels about me until they are mad at me. I can't speak for everyone because some people just don't have the "gift" in being aware of people's true intentions. I read once that when you can read people and can tell what they want from you by their words and body language etc etc. that is a gift, apparently. I don't want to sound like a narcissist but I do think it's an intellectual gift that has aided AND cursed me on many paths in my life. It's awesome to know what someone wants you to say or do by just "reading" them. It's also a huge pain when YOU truly want to do something for yourself but you can't. etc.
Back to the "feelings" aspect. Yes, I have found how relatives truly think of me. All I have to do is interact with them on a lifetime basis and when they reach a point of frustration the truth comes out. Today is a perfect example. I spent the night at my Gram's house so I could go to my cousin's bridal shower (which was fun by the way). I stayed an extra two nights and my sister came to pick me up unbeknownst to Gram; although I did tell Gram she was doing so the night before, I guess she didn't remember. Anyways the point is she was mad that she bought all this snack food the night before so I could eat it down there. When I left she's like "did you bring your ice cream and pizza?" I said no I was leaving it there for later she said "jokingly" "Well f*** on you then." I said "well I have to weed the garden and stuff," then she's like "I hope you get roasted out there." I was like "I know right?" just to neutralize the mood.
I have so many occasions where people have called me things and said things that are relevant to how I feel about myself. i.e. being called fat and ugly, being called a f****** retard. the list goes on and on.
That's my experience with it and so far it all corrects my theory. I doubt I'm the ONLY person in the world who experiences this and has realized what really goes on.
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